Why we believe in a compassionate approach...
At Conscious Separation, our experience in dealing with the emotionally charged and complex issues of separation and divorce has shown us that an empathetic, collaborative mindset, one that embraces both parties maintaining control of their destiny through open communication, is the one that leads to the most effective separation outcome.
We speak to our clients about their goals and help both parties achieve what they want by fostering respect, empathy, and open and honest communication. When it comes to separation advice, Conscious Separation provides a uniquely healthy, time and cost effective service for recently-separated couples.
Our soul goal is to assist both of you achieve a balanced, fair outcome whilst maintaining your emotional wellbeing and allowing you to Part Ways Gracefully.
Who we ARE...
“My vision is to mediate a kinder way of separating so that all members of the family, no matter what the circumstances, can part with dignity and self-respect.
A messy separation can have long lasting negative repercussions. If sound legal advice and impartial emotional support are given early in the piece, the whole process can be transformed from a place of pain into a place of personal growth and amicable resolution.
We aim to make this transition as smooth as possible while at the same time eliminating costly court proceedings and excessive legal fees.”
— Steve
Discover the faces behind our novel
approach to separation advice.
Steve Heptonstall
Founder and Director
Steve Heptonstall
Founder and Director
His focus shifted to developing his awareness through self enquiry, which led him towards Leadership Development, Coaching and Facilitation.
Steve has studied Non Violent Communication (NVC,) Somatic Experience (SE) is now a Path of Love Facilitator, Tantra assistant facilitator (with his wife), Executive Coach, Councillor and Lawyer. He continues to work in his own legal practice along with various consulting assignments.
Steve brings a unique blend of legal knowledge, facilitation, mediation and coaching with a heartfelt focus. He provides a non biased, safe environment, enabling everyone to be heard, seen and acknowledged, guiding challenging conversations in a grounded wholistic way.
- Phone:+61 414 22 99 17
- Email:steve@consciousseparation.com.au
Gina Bloom
Transpersonal Psychotherapy
Gina Bloom
Transpersonal Psychotherapy
Originally trained as a Voice Dialogue Practitioner and in Myth and Literature (M.Phil, Cambridge, UK), Gina has taught other Transpersonal Counsellors and Art Therapists at the Phoenix Institute, and is a Facilitatior in the Path of Love work.
Gina is a long-term Diamond Approach student (with AH Almaas), and has been working with individuals, couples and families since 2010. She is currently also training in both the Learning Love work and in Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy approach. She provides help and support for individuals and couples in all stages of relating, including in managing issues around separation.
- Phone:0404 093 865
- Email:info@consciousseparation.com.au
Deborah Bruinsma
Family Consultant
Deborah Bruinsma
Family Consultant
Deborah has been employed in Australia and Canada, in both state and federal government departments and in private practice assisting families in crisis, providing therapeutic intervention, in policy development, management and as a university and TAFE educator.
For the past 15 years Deborah has been primary consulting to The Family Court and The Federal Circuit Court of Australia conducting Child Dispute Conferences, Child Inclusive Conferences and Family Assessments where she provides recommendations to families and the Court on the best interest of children post separation.
In private practice Deborah’s focus is to coach individuals through the separation process, and to work with separated couples to develop parenting plans, to enhance their co-parenting communication and relationship. Deborah’s focus is to assist individuals and couples to resolve matters were ever possible without litigation but if that is unavoidable to support them in navigating their way through what can be an emotionally taxing and overwhelming time and experience.”
- Phone:1300 84 84 78
- Email:info@consciousseparation.com.au
Alex Bamber
Entrepreneur and Psychotherapist.
Alex Bamber
Entrepreneur and Psychotherapist.
- Phone:+1 (859) 254-6589
- Email:info@consciousseparation.com.au
Why should you choose Conscious Separation over the traditional adversial approach?
Cost-effective
You don’t have to pay for separate expensive divorce lawyers or cover court costs - only our consultancy.
It’s better for you
Start your new life on the right foot by negotiating mutually-beneficial separation agreements.
It’s faster
Our team works with both of you to ensure that you receive finalisation of separation agreements on a faster timeline.
Understand your rights
Unlike a traditional lawyer, we sit with each of you, informing you of your rights, duties, and entitlements, supporting a balanced outcome.